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Choosing a school: red flags

Expert advice and insights on private school red flags

We provide all the information you need on choosing a school on OurKids.net. Here, we focus on the warning signs parents should watch for when evaluating schools. We asked education experts to share their insights on what to look out for—and what these red flags might reveal about a school’s culture and practices.


For more expert guidance on the school search process, explore our comprehensive choosing guide. You can also read parent interviews on choosing a school and our in-depth guide on how to get into a private school.

What are common red flags to look for in private schools?

“High staff turnover is a bad sign. You want strong leadership too, so if the principal, headmaster, or board of directors is changing every couple of years, this points to a lack of stability. If my child is in Grade 2, I’d like to know there’s continuity from Grade 2 to 3.

What are the goals of the school? What are their priorities? How do they approach the curriculum? If a school can’t answer those questions, this is not a good sign.”
Ann and Karen Wolff, Education Consultant, Wolff Educational Services

How can poor communication signal deeper issues?

“Bad schools aren’t transparent: they don’t communicate clearly, or they do so with a spin. You should also avoid schools that give you a high-pressure sales pitch—those that accept your child immediately and push you to sign on the dotted line, often asking for all the money up front. Of course, this differs from a school that says, ‘We need to know in 10 days because we have a waiting list.’”
Janyce Lastman, Education Consultant, The Tutor Group

Why does understanding your child matter so much?

“The biggest red flag is a lack of commitment to understanding your child. That might mean not doing initial testing, not reviewing assessments, or not arranging an in-person interview. You want to ensure communication goes both ways. It’s almost like a dating service—you need to vet the school and decide if it’s the right fit for your child.”
Una Malcolm, Director, Bright Light Learners

What defines good practice in a private school?

“I wouldn’t recommend a school that didn’t have good practices. Leadership, educational philosophy, execution, teachers, parent community, a joyful learning environment, parent participation, a solid admissions process—it’s all about strong, consistent practice. If those elements aren’t present, it can’t be a good fit.”
Elaine Danson, Education Consultant, Danson and Associates

Child-specific advice on school choice
For personalized guidance, explore our child traits guide. We examine how school choice depends on key factors like a child’s mental and academic focus, social tendencies, activity level, and academic interests—from arts to STEM. We also explore considerations for children who are gifted, have special needs, learning disabilities, or social and emotional challenges.

To receive school-choice advice tailored to your child’s unique strengths and needs, create a child profile through your user account and explore our seven ways to choose a school based on your child’s needs, including overall fit, academic challenge, social struggles, academic struggles, specific learning interests, university preparation, and special needs.

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